My story.....


I am 25 years old and I have just find out why I can not find my happiness, why I feel depressed, why I can not settle down and have my own family even if I want to with all my heart.
Its all because when I was a child I have been abused by my parent in any possible way.
I wonder if there is anyone else who feel the same way as me?


“I want my kids to have the things in life that I never had when I was growing up. Things like beards and chest hair.” 
― Jarod Kintz, I Want

When you grow up in a dysfunctional family, you experience trauma and pain from your parents' actions, words, and attitudes. Because of this trauma you experienced, you grew up changed, different from other children, missing important parts of necessary parenting that prepare you for adulthood, missing parts of your childhood when you were forced into unnatural roles within your family. For some of you, it has led you to attempt to flee the pain of your past by alcohol or drug use. Others of you feel inexplicably compelled to repeat the abuses that were done to you on your own children or with your own spouse. Others of you have felt inner anxiety or rage, and don't know why you feel as you do.

You were innocent, and your life was changed dramatically by forces in your family you had no control over, and now you are an adult survivor of that trauma. This article will discuss what these families are like, what is the impact of growing up in these families, and what you can do to begin the process of healing.

LETS TALK ABOUT IT!

“Children must be taught how to think, not what to think.” 
― Margaret Mead

“Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them.” 
― Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray